Our lives change; how do you talk about it?

Change in lives can explode like the raging flood in the photo above or overcome us with the subtleness of a drip, drip, drip of water.  Whether we like it or not, change is wide awake doing its mind-blowing work every day before we get out of bed because it never sleeps.  We have no options but to deal with it.

This onslaught makes the discussion of change a huge part of language.  People talk about change every day. Why?  Change constantly messes with our lives.  Plan to your heart’s content but count on talking about illness, money issues, and relationship upheavals.

People struggle with change.  It throws them off balance, impacting how they communicate with others.  A few emotional responses when dealing with evolving situations include anger, sadness, disbelief, and violence.  

The overwhelming nature of change requires language to embrace it in countless ways.  Seeking balance in speaking English requires an understanding and acceptance of the inevitable change we all face.  Ignoring, arguing about it, or denying change leads to poor or uncomfortable situations and conversations.    

Be mindful of the language of change in your life.  Balancing emotional responses with logical thought helps you to accept and talk about real change.  Too much emotion or logic can make you sound either crazy or cold. The yinyang of change seeks a balance of both responses.

The next time you face change try to allow both your feelings and reasoning to play a part in any conversations.  Balancing these two responses may aid in how you approach the inevitable.     

Here are 112 English change phrases we use on a regular basis.  Read the phrase and be mindful of the first thought that pops into your head.  If you were in a conversation how would talk about the change?  Are you too emotional, logical or in denial?   

Let’s understand the language of change, how we use it, and how it impacts our conversations.   

What choice do we have considering its inevitable role in our lives and language?

112 change conversations

  1. All things must change
  2. Change agent
  3. Change it up
  4. Change a diaper
  5. Change your attitude
  6. Altitude change
  7. Change speeds
  8. Change your socks
  9. Change of pace
  10. Change of life
  11. Change the laundry
  12. Small change
  13. Change a tire
  14. Change your mind
  15. Life changing
  1. Change your beliefs
  2. Change for a dollar?
  3. Change flights
  4. Change your toothbrush
  5. Getting use to the change
  6. Change the filter
  7. Change the kitty litter
  8. Change of feelings
  9. Change perspective
  10. Change the oil
  11. Change your vote
  12. Change in your weight
  13. Change teams
  14. Change jobs
  15. A change up
  16. Change your clothes
  17. Change of seasons
  18. Change batteries
  19. Changing fashion
  20. Change the clock
  21. Change in the weather
  22. Change your pants
  23. Change of scenery
  24. Big changes
  25. Game changer
  26. Change your underwear
  27. Concept change
  28. Change in strategy
  29. Change in your health
  30. Change partners
  1. Change in emotions
  2. Change of heart
  3. Change lanes
  4. Change in direction
  5. A change for the better
  6. A change in diet
  7. Change in habits
  8. Change speeds
  9. The need to change
  10. Change your seat
  11. Change doctors
  12. Change the world
  13. A changed woman
  14. A changed man
  15. Change your tune
  16. Developmental change
  17. Politics of change
  18. Fundamental change
  19. Social change
  20. Environmental change
  1. Incremental change
  2. Revolutionary changes
  3. Change the music
  4. Sudden change
  5. Culture change
  6. Anticipated changes
  7. Personnel changes
  8. Change your body
  9. Change the station
  10. Speed of change
  11. Planned changes
  12. Structural change
  13. Change the game
  14. Responsive to change
  15. Change in taste
  16. Force of change
  17. Change over
  18. Change the bed
  19. Transformational change
  20. Change the furniture
  21. Unplanned change
  22. Organizational change
  23. Change your girlfriend
  24. Change hairstyles
  25. Change friends
  1. Change the pitcher
  2. Temperature change
  3. Any spare change?
  4. Change in your pocket
  5. Change with age
  6. Time change
  7. Change locations
  8. Transitional change
  9. Scene change
  10. Change your shoes
  1. Don’t change horses in mid-stream
  2. Sea change
  3. Interchange
  4. Change your eye level
  5. Change the volume
  6. Change your earrings
  7. Change in the wind
  8. A change in plans
  9. Time for a change?
  10. Positive change
  11. Change in your health
  12. Accepting change

Yes, the language of change is large and varied.  Responding to changes in your life impacts the way others perceive you.  Denial is useless but balancing emotions and logic help keep the conversation in perspective.

Good luck in facing your changes.

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